Finding yourself back in the dating world after a divorce or long-term relationship can be a daunting process, particularly if you have children to consider. But getting back on the dating horse doesn’t have to be difficult as long as you keep a few things in mind when it comes to your kids.
Take your time
There’s no need for rushing to introduce your new partner to the kiddos unless the relationship is getting serious. Make sure you are both on the same page and discuss how you want to approach this. You wouldn’t want your kids to become attached to your new squeeze only to have them experience the loss of someone they liked.
Telling your new partner about your children is a given and he/she should really know from the very beginning. If he or she doesn’t like children or can not accept you are a parent, it’s pretty clear they aren’t right for you. Save yourself the heartbreak and move on.
Being honest with your children about your new love is vital to have them on board. They will smell BS a mile away, so try and be as honest with them as possible about your relationship. It’s important that you reassure them and explain that they will always be the most important people your life, no matter what.
Accept that your kids may be slow to warm up to your new partner. If that’s the case, don’t push the relationship on them too quickly. Give them time.
Let your children know that your new significant other isn’t intended to replace your ex — ever. This way, they don’t have to feel as though they have to choose or that they betray the other parent.
Many children cling onto the hope that their parents will get back together for a long time and may struggle to come to terms with it. When you’ve moved on to a new partner, the finality of your split becomes more real to your children, which may bring out feelings of jealousy, anger, and fear in them, so talk to them about their feelings and let them express their emotions without judgement. Gently remind them that mummy or daddy are also people who deserve to be happy, even if it’s with someone else.
Do you have any other advice for single parents looking to date? Share it with us by leaving a comment.
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Spring is starting to pop out and this dedicated naughty blog post is focused on all areas for how you can get sprung this March! The month of March can be a bit of an in-between one, it’s warmer than deepest, darkest January but not hot enough for the pub garden and hooking up on the fly. Nope, in March you still need to depend on your hot contacts on Plenty More Naughty Fish for fun and attention. But don’t like the anticlimax of March reflect in your sex life! Naughty dating, messaging and flirting is easy with the Naughty Pond, there’s always plenty more naughty hookups and we’ve got some great ideas on how to keep things hot on the dating site and in the bedroom!
March 1st: National Peanut Butter Lover’s Day
Are you a lover of the sweet stuff? Do you love to have fun with food? Is your ultimate sexual fantasy the idea of being smothered and then licked clean? Why not embrace the Naughty Pond’s sploshing lovers and find yourself a hot date with someone who has a passion for peanut butter and eating out!
March 8th: International Women’s Day
You are a lover of a fine woman, you can appreciate all that goes on behind the scenes and you may find that hard graft is a massive turn on. You may be a strong, independent woman that wants to take your sexual liberation and casual hookups to the next level using the Naughty Pond! So, why not celebrate it all on International Women’s Day? Get yourself dressed up to the nines and pick exactly which part of your body you would like celebrated first: your feet are tired after a long day, why not start with a sensual foot massage? Your back aches from carrying your load all day, why not suggest a deep massage with hot oils. Your tongue will have done all the talking this week, why not treat it to a little one on one time with your casual friend with benefits?
March 9: National Barbie Day
Barbie did a lot for girls as a kid, and we all know they did a lot for the boys too! Why not spend the evening on National Barbie Day getting dressed up and enjoying the fantastic life, being plastic. Why not join her as Ken?
March 9th: National Napping Day
Who doesn’t love a nap? With a day to celebrate it, why not plan a slumber party that evening with a strict dress code – no pyjamas. Jazz up your naps with sweet treats (you might have some peanut butter left from March 1st) and some games – not your usual Sleeping Lions, more like hide the sausage!
March 19: Spring Equinox
There are many traditions associated with the start of spring such as Easter eggs, Spring cleaning, rebirth etc. You can get naughtily creative with a spring theme. Some ideas that come to mind: a bit fun spring cleaning role play, spending the whole day in your birthday suit or hiding naughty surprises around your home for a fun Easter egg hunt with a twist.
March 17th: St. Patrick’s Day
Top o’ the morning to you, St. Patrick’s Day is a great time to get down and dirty and explore your Irish roots, in the pub with a pint of Guinness and in the bedroom! You can warm up with the Mattress Mick and end on The Fixer! Get your legs up for a merry old dance and then hook them around each other to get into the perfect position and see in Paddy’s Day with your legs in the air and your breath in your throat! If you’re the queen of your casual relationship, why not embrace the Irish loved position: Queening! Make him your throne and sit on his face!
See, March can be a great month for casual hook ups, new sex positions and in-between no strings attached relationships! It’s easy to find a hot date using Plenty More Naughty Fish and there are plenty more hotties hitting the Naughty Pond this month!
What are you waiting for? Make it a March to remember!
So, you’re in a new relationship and heard a few rumours about their past? Now, we think it’s good to be aware but we also think that everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance (well, most people). This could also be a vicious rumour spread by a jealous ex who loves to cause a stir. Above all, we believe that you should trust your instincts.
If something is worrying you, just ask your partner outright.
Here are some tips on how to deal with certain worries you may experience.
You have heard your partner jumps from one serious relationship to the next
It is pretty clear he/she loves being loved and isn’t afraid of commitment. However, be aware that jumping straight from one serious relationship to the next can indicate insecurity or fear of being alone.
This does not mean they would cheat on you. But you should have a conversation about why they cheated and if they don’t address the reason and don’t regret it then alarm bells should start ringing.
They have been cheated on
They may have trust issues. They may have trouble opening up. Just give them time and reassure them if need be.
They’re new to the relationship thing
This person could have a fear of rejection, they could apt to jump ship when the tides get rough. Or, they may simply be unlucky in love. It’s best not to judge anyone before you get to know them properly!
They’re a “player”
Hmm, well with this it completely depends on who you have heard it from. If everyone refers to your partner as a player then they probably are! Don’t stick around to find out. You don’t want to be just another notch on their bedpost! There’s plenty more fish in the sea 🙂
So there’s a little bit of red flag info for you. Just remember – trust your instincts! Like we said at the start, some people just love to cause trouble. If something is bothering you the best thing to do is ask the person in question. Their reaction should indicate whether you need to steer clear.
Sex is great, isn’t it? It’s what most of us think about 4837574 times a day, it’s a motivation for many and it could be the main reason you’re dating and searching on the Naughty pond! You may have found yourself fishing in the naughty pond because your sex life has been a bit like a baron wasteland recently – but as a member of Plenty More Naughty Fish, you could be getting wet, naughty and sexy in no time!
Sex is a hugely important part of any relationship. But for an adult and naughty relationship and dating scenario, it’s everything! You need to know that the person you’re sending naughty messages to and investing your time in is going to be a rocket in the bedroom! You don’t want to get all that way to find they’re something of a damp squib!
Adult dating and using the naughty pond is super easy, you’ll be able to find naughty singles in no time but you need to make sure you’re a good match before you commit to doing the deed! When messaging your new beau, make sure you qualify them with some sexy questions…
- What’s your favourite sex position?
- Do you have any fetishes?
- What’s your favourite body part?
- Do you like to play dress up?
- Do you have any fantasies?
- What are your thoughts on foreplay?
All of these questions will help you to see what sort of person your sexy match is in the bedroom! If you don’t like some of their answers you can cool it off with them – that’s the beauty of adult dating online, you can take everything fully at your own pace and you can get naughty as little or as often as you’d like!
If you find someone that ticks all the boxes and you start feeling new movements and sensations when speaking to them – get it out there! Plan a meeting and hook up! Make sure you are in a safe place and you have safe sex but why not go the full nine yards and plan a naughty night away to really get to know each other?
Get naughty in real life after naughty messages, naughty flirting and a night together!
Join the naughty pond now to start your adult dating journey online today! It’s free to join and you could be hooking up with naughty singles in no time!
As exhilarating as first dates can be, they are also often mild panic-inducing – imma right? There’s the question of what to wear? Where to meet? What to do? What to talk about?
Sometimes the conversation flows freely, other times it needs a little, um, help and on other occasions, you get a cacophony of crickets. But we’re not here to talk about those latter moments. I want to address the ones that need a little inspiration to get going and that often turn out to be quite interesting.
The key in any conversation is ‘connection’. Imagine sitting opposite someone who keeps looking around whilst you are telling them about your last holiday. They are clearly not sending signals of ‘hey, I’m listening, keep talking!’ Practising active listening is a great way to make the other person heard and for a connection to take place. Once you noticed the connection (relaxed face and body, smiling) steer topics to things you and your date may already have in common and try to draw parallels.
Expand on what you already know about your date from your initial chats/conversations to keep the momentum flowing. As an example tell them what attracted you to their profile such as their love of reading. You can ask them about their favourite author, genre, book, place to read. If you’ve been set up by a friend discuss how each of you knows them.
If you don’t know what you have in common yet, comment on your meeting place (no moaning please!). For example, you could ask if they’ve been to one of your favourite restaurants or bars. From there you could hop onto favourite cuisines, best cocktail bars, music etc. Picking up clues what your date responds to makes them and in turn, you, relax.
We have a signal
Once you’ve established a connection you can move onto deeper topics. What’s your date good at? What are they passionate about?
‘Tell me about your family.’ Can be a very enlightening conversation. Even if their story isn’t positive you can empathise (‘Wow, that sounds really hard. How did you deal with that?’) thereby giving you an even greater chance to connect
Asking about their friends is also a good way to get to know your date on a deeper level. Check-in on their long-term friends. Why have they been friends for so long? A lack of those types of relationships is usually a bad sign.
Going even deeper by discussing their aspirations for life or philosophical questions may seem like scary topics to tackle on a first date, so you can leave these for later dates. Perhaps it’s best to avoid topics like marriage and children on the first date. Instead, ask your date about what their perfect life would look like or who they most admire and why. It may be scary to ask these types of questions on a first date but these are often the ones that unearth real compatibility. Be brave, get in there!
Be careful you don’t shoot out question after question. You’re on a date, not interrogating a suspect. Likewise, pay attention to how many questions your date is asking you. Keep in mind that fast-talking is often a sign of nerves. Try asking them if there’s anything they want to know about you might make them feel more confident to ask you a question and get them out of their nervous state. But if your date continues to talk at you rather than with you, you may need to consider if this date worth pursuing or not.
It’s ok to finish a date early (Just say: ‘This was really nice meeting you. I have another commitment in 30 minutes. Let’s get the bill.’)
We hope you find this useful. What topics do you think are great for a first date? Feel free to share them below.
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January is here and Christmas and the season of festive cheer seems like a distant memory, doesn’t it?
Hooking up in a bleary-eyed, Christmas mood did you well for a few weeks. You were seeing loads of singles on Plenty More Naughty Fish and your matches were going crazy! December was filled with plenty of Christmas parties, festive drinks down your local and naughty hookups and treats. You were just as hot online as you were out and about and it was amazing. But that’s all over now… January is back with a vengeance and it looks like there’s nothing to look forward to in the adult dating world.
But you are wrong! There’s plenty more fish in the naughty sea, you just need to jump right back into the naughty pond!
Now that Christmas is done with, it’s time to get your Naughty Pond profile up to date and refreshed. Why not show off some of your hottest festive selfies? Add some new information about yourself and get some sexy selfies uploaded to show off! Get excited about finding causal relationships again easily.
January is one of the best times to hookup! Everyone is feeling just as deflated as you are and wanting an escape to a hot and steamy world of online naughtiness and no strings attached fun. You won’t be the only one that is searching for sexy escape or that’s bored of the whole new year, new me stuff.
Our naughty pond is swimming with singles just like you who want to message, flirt, hang out and hook up! You could be swamped with singles all day in no time and you could find a long term f-buddy for the year 2020 within the first month of the year!
Want to find hookups in your local area, flirt with sexy strangers from further afield and get naughty with new people?
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Even the most creative and capable daters need a little bit of inspiration sometimes, so here’s our list for date night ideas in and around Manchester.
First on our list is Mini Golf. This a great activity for couples as it’s active and a lot of fun. When you’re up and moving around it’s easier to avoid awkward pauses or dead conversation. You can talk about the game, or talk around the game with natural breaks build in. You can talk, you can laugh, all while doing something. When you’re done, grab a snack and laugh about the putt you missed. Visit Tree Top Adventure Golf at The Printworks and take yourself and your date on an Amazonian adventure.
Next up is some good old-fashioned Magic! If you’re a fan of Disney, singalongs and fancy dress then check out the Immersive Magical Brunch. They describe the experience as a huge Disney inspired adult boozy sing-along party. I mean, come on! What’s not to love? Get your costumes ready and put on those glass slippers. Grab tickets over at Feverup.
If you’d rather party like it’s 1922 then make sure you head on over to Long Island (O2 Ritz Manchester) for a night of Razzle Dazzle. A lavish and extravagant affair has been assembled to bring you into the secret world of prohibition times gone by. Be sure to be quick though. This is a one night only affair. To Party like Gatsby visit https://events.partylikegatsby.eu/manchester-cabaret-noir/
If ‘dinner & drinks’ is more your thing then you can’t go wrong with The Liar’s Club – one of Manchester’s best cocktail bars. It’s dark and atmospheric interior filled with tiki torches, bamboo and wooden furniture will transport you straight to the Caribbean. The Liars Club offers a staggering choice of exotic tiki cocktails. Why not learn to re-create your favourite cocktails at home at one of their excellent cocktail masterclasses? For more details check out their website https://www.theliarsclub.co.uk/
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January is here, Christmas feels like a distant memory and it’s about as much fun as a wet weekend in Cleethorpes. To top it off, you are single and ready to mingle. Your side hustle has hustled away and your regular hookups are in hibernation mode. January, all-round, looks pretty bleak.
But with online dating sites like Plenty More Naughty Fish, January is a great time to play the field and fish for sexy hookups and harmless flirting!
As a member of The Naughty Pond, you’ll be able to create a profile on yourself that shows off everything that is sexy and fun about you. Once you’ve done this, you’ll be able to browse and search for naughty members.
The singles who join the Naughty Pond are after one thing and one thing only – no strings attached hookups and casual relationships!
There are loads of singles who want to find someone to have regular flirty chats with, some members want to find a long term friend with benefit and many members are active in their pursuit of hot flings, casual sex and online naughtiness!
You can search for members by things like their appearance, job, salary, location and so much more. You can completely tailor your search for a hook up with every swipe, click and opening of a message.
If you know that blondes really get you going, simply search for hot blondes in your area.
If you prefer a curvy single who loves to party and live around the corner, you can find her and send her a message!
If you want a naughty but discreet fling with someone from far away for sexting, naughty messages and sending saucy snaps, simply search for it!
Plenty More Naughty Fish is a dating site that is filled with naughty singles who want to experiment with new sexy buddies! It has singles that are in their twenties as well as older naughty members who want to find discreet, casual encounters online. You can flirt, connect and meet your sexy match easily!
It’s easy to play the field with the Naughty Pond – the opportunities to meet hot singles who want one thing only are endless. Think no strings attached fun, no commitments, no boring relationships and no repeat awkward dates. No dates at all! Simply join, create your profile and search! You can find naughty singles easily for one-off sex and members who fancy long term friends with benefits hookups!
Join the Naughty Pond now to start playing the field!
Happy New Year everyone!
We know January is often a tight month budget-wise but fear not! Your dating game doesn’t have to suffer, so we’ve compiled a list of our favourite wallet-friendly dating ideas for all you lovelies in the Brum area.
Jazz it up, baby!
If you love the sound of the jazz and blues get yourself down to the Hare and Hounds in King’s Heath who are hosting several dedicated nights starting January 11th. Take your date and enjoy fantastic live music from some of the country’s premier jazz and blues musicians. Entry is free!
The Great Escape
A locked room and a race against the clock.
You and your teammates have just 60 minutes to solve a series of amazing and puzzling challenges and escape the evil Japanese Warlord, find Blackbeard’s treasure or defeat the Nazis. The choice – and thrill – is yours! Are you up to the challenge? Tickets start from £20 pp for 4-6 players.
This one is for the carnivorous foodies among you (sorry vegetarians/vegans!). If you haven’t tried Polish cuisine, you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise and The Karczma in Digbeth serves up a feast! The menu contains numerous Polish classics including Pierogi (stuffed dumplings), Berszcz (Beetroot soup), Pickled Herring, Zurek (Pickled Rye Flour Soup) served from a hollowed-out loaf of bread, as well as a whole host of grilled meats and fish. Pricewise it’s also very reasonable.
Did you know that darts is very often a couples or dating event in Japan? Many men bring a ‘date’ to play darts as it’s considered ‘user-friendly’ for all types of people and players. So why not visit Birmingham’s Flight Club in Temple Street? Their team reinvented darts for the modern world offering a whole new level of fun with fast-paced, multi-player games.
Add to that a mouth-watering food menu, a signature slushie and delicious cocktails and you have the perfect date night mix.
We hope you enjoyed our suggestions! Let us know your best kept dating tip in your area.
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A new year has started and there’s no better time to search and connect with people who want to find exactly what you’re looking for – a new, naughty hookup! Luckily, if you use an online dating site like Plenty More Naughty Fish, you could easily find a new hookup and F-buddy in just a few clicks!
January is a great time to meet new people and find new singles who want to get naughty and have only casual fun. Now that Christmas is out of the way, you can relax into finding someone new and exciting!
The whole “New Year New Me” thing rings true in naughty dating! So many singles out there will finally have the courage to start a new casual relationship and explore a new type of adult relationship. So what are you waiting for?
By joining the Naughty Pond this January, you will be able to create a profile and add photos of yourself. You’ll also be able to search for naughty singles based on things like their location, appearance, career and even sexual preference and favourite sex position!
Joining a naughty, adult dating site like Plenty More Naughty Fish is easy and you could be finding sexy singles to hookup with in no time!
January can be a depressing time for all – back to work, back to the diet, back to not drinking; there’s only one good way to seriously spice it up! Find someone new to flirt with, send messages, get naughty and start hooking up!
It’s easy to find new naughty singles in the Naughty Pond – simply search for exactly what tickles your pickle!
If 2020 is making you want to try something new in the bedroom, write that in your profile!
If the New Year has you fancying some of your old party tricks – get searching for them!
2020 could be your year of ultimate naughty and adult dating – so what are you waiting for? Jump into the Naughty Pond now to find no strings attached fun and hookups with sexy singles!
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