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Happy New Year and welcome to 2020!

A new year has started and there’s no better time to search and connect with people who want to find exactly what you’re looking for – a new, naughty hookup! Luckily, if you use an online dating site like Plenty More Naughty Fish, you could easily find a new hookup and F-buddy in just a few clicks!

January is a great time to meet new people and find new singles who want to get naughty and have only casual fun. Now that Christmas is out of the way, you can relax into finding someone new and exciting!

The whole “New Year New Me” thing rings true in naughty dating! So many singles out there will finally have the courage to start a new casual relationship and explore a new type of adult relationship. So what are you waiting for?

By joining the Naughty Pond this January, you will be able to create a profile and add photos of yourself. You’ll also be able to search for naughty singles based on things like their location, appearance, career and even sexual preference and favourite sex position!

Joining a naughty, adult dating site like Plenty More Naughty Fish is easy and you could be finding sexy singles to hookup with in no time!

January can be a depressing time for all – back to work, back to the diet, back to not drinking; there’s only one good way to seriously spice it up! Find someone new to flirt with, send messages, get naughty and start hooking up!

It’s easy to find new naughty singles in the Naughty Pond – simply search for exactly what tickles your pickle!

If 2020 is making you want to try something new in the bedroom, write that in your profile!

If the New Year has you fancying some of your old party tricks – get searching for them!

2020 could be your year of ultimate naughty and adult dating – so what are you waiting for? Jump into the Naughty Pond now to find no strings attached fun and hookups with sexy singles!

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How to get over rejection in love and life

Let’s be honest, dating is not all rainbows and puppy dogs. It takes time and patience and there can be disappointments and rejections along the way. And it’s those rejections we’d like to address to help you navigate them more easily. 

Don’t take it personally

You have no idea what reasons the other person has for not getting back in touch, so fretting about it does more harm than good. We know it’s not always that simple, especially if you have dated the person for a while. Think about it this way, if they don’t share your feelings about the relationship, isn’t it best if you move on?

Be compassionate

No one likes to be rejected and it’s perfectly normal to feel upset and hurt at first. And if you’ve been dropped without any explanation it can hit you especially hard. It’s important, however, to practice self-kindness, as blaming yourself will only hurt you further. Unless you’ve been given a very clear reason why it’s not worked out, avoid jumping to conclusions as to why it didn’t last. There may be many reasons why he/she decided to break it off and they don’t have to be your fault.  

Avoid a victim mindset

On the flipside of blaming yourself is blaming the other party. After a rejection, it can be very easy to slip into a victim mentality by generalising behaviour (ie. all men/woman are…). This may feel good at first, and it certainly feels easier than looking in the mirror, but in the long-term, this mindset will sabotage any real chances at finding new love and keep you feeling stuck and powerless. Again, acknowledge your feelings but don’t dwell. 

Embrace yourself

After a rejection, especially when we listen to our critical inner voice, it’s easy for self-doubt and insecurities to raise their ugly heads and can leave us feeling less sure of ourselves. When we’ve been left by someone, we may find ourselves feeling out of place. It may become difficult to visit certain places, see certain people, or partake in activities for a while. However, this situation presents an opportunity to really connect with our individuality, your own needs. What is it that you enjoy doing? Who are you outside of a relationship? Focussing on defining yourself anew again, can get you out of heartbreak-mode much faster. Realising that you have a whole life outside of whatever rejection you’ve experienced, and that life will go on.

What has helped you deal with rejection in the past? Let us know in the comments below. 

To gift or not to gift in adult dating?

So, this is Christmas! The most wonderful time of the year is upon us and the age-old question of what to get your f-buddy for the festive period? Your relationship is strictly casual and naughty as hell but what do you do about Christmas presents? 

With any casual and naughty relationship, boundaries need to be super clear from the get-go. Your relationship is simply for benefits and hookups and that works for you. 

But who doesn’t love receiving something special for Christmas?

The bonus of gifting your naughty match at Christmas is that you can go as naughty as you want and there’s no judgement! You can go wild and buy things that would fulfil your every sexual fantasy! There’s no need to go boring with Christmas gifts and you can even get something interactive that you can use when you next hook up!

If you’re going to gift this Christmas, why not go with sexy underwear – for you and for them? You could shop till you drop buying things like crotchless knickers, edible panties or even edible boxers. You could all out and get something for your beau to dress up in just for you! If you’re into firemen or nurses, get them a sexy outfit for you to feast your eyes on when you’re next together!

A great naughty gift is food – fun with food in the bedroom can be sensuous, dirty and freaky as hell! Why not get some edible licks and lubes and give each other a full taste of Christmas? If you want to go vanilla this festive season, you can always jazz it up with flavoured lube! If you love cherry flavoured everything, you could have a party in your mouth and in your pants! 

If you really want to spice things up this Christmas you could buy your casual match a sex toy to play with while you’re apart and when you’re together and things are getting hot! You can easily shop online for vibrators, bullets you can put in your handbag for discretion, love eggs, butt plugs – the lot! You can buy it all online easily and it’ll land on your doorstep in unbranded boxes ready for you to slip under the Christmas tree! 

Why not buy some sex games? Start with some sexy card games, truth or dare and more! You’ll be laughing and getting down and dirty in no time! Novelty gifts always go down well – you can get your match novelty pants that say “69 me!” or sex cheques or go really silly with sexy scratch cards and jelly boobs! Get your stresses out with stress boobs or bake a naughty pre-hook up dinner with willy pasta!

If you’re in a naughty, casual relationship this Christmas, don’t be afraid to gift – but do it the right way! Don’t take it all too seriously and get ready to get hot under the collar!

And if you’re looking to find someone for some naughty holiday fun and hookups, why not join Plenty More Naughty Fish now? Jump into the naughty pond and start adult dating now!

5 December date ideas that don’t break the bank

Let’s face it, December is an expensive time of year for most of us but your dating life should not have to suffer because of it. So here are our favourite affordable and fun date ideas for this month.

Get your skate one

Remember how much fun you had as a kid whizzing – or crawling – across the ice? Plenty of city centres now have ice rinks at this time of year so there’s really no excuse not to give it a try. Not only is it loads of fun but it is sure you get you very close to your date, especially if they are not as accomplished in the arts of ice skating and will need to hold on to you for balance. Afterwards, you can warm up with a hot toddy and laugh about your sore bottoms.

Have a bake-off

Who doesn’t love the smell of freshly baked Christmas cookies, so why not have a bake-off? Each person picks one recipe and you ask friends and family to judge your efforts. The loser will have to cook the next meal, sing a Christmas carol in front of their family or come up with the next fun date idea. Make it interesting, get creative!

Mix it up

Whilst on the subject of food, we mustn’t forget the impressive art of cocktail making. Mixing your way through different cocktail recipes is another fun way to ‘expand’ your horizons so to speak. You could book one of the many cocktail making classes available, buy a book on the topic or simply Google some recipes to try. You could even create your own signature drink for you both. Wouldn’t that be a cute story to share one day?

Lend a hand

The true meaning of Christmas is to give, so why not spread some cheer and volunteer at a local charity or start a fundraiser to help those less fortunate? You could do a sponsored sleep out, a Santa Fun Run or create a gift-wrapped shoebox full of nice things and send it off to a disadvantaged child. There are so many ways to give (just search ‘Volunteer at Christmas’). It’s sure you make you all warm and fuzzy afterwards. And who knows? This might just be the start of an annual family tradition.

Shake a leg

Hit a local karaoke bar or stay at home to create a playlist with all your favourite Christmas tunes. Have a musical pop quiz or a dance-off in your PJs. You could even write your own nativity play or compose the next Christmas number 1. There are so many ways to have a music-themed date that you’ll be spoilt for choice but you can have some awesome fun. Up the ante and post your creations online for your friends to vote on and spread some cheer. It’s all about having fun!

We hope you like our favourite December date ideas. Have one to share with us? Then drop us a comment!

 

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The do’s and don’ts of naughty online dating!

So you’re on a naughty dating site, maybe Plenty More Naughty Fish, and you’re ready to take the plunge and start flirting with sexy singles online! It’s fun, it’s exciting, it’s fast-paced! But there are some big do’s and don’ts for naughty online dating!

We’ve outlined some of the do’s and some of the definitely nots for dating on Plenty More Naughty Fish so that you can concentrate on flirting, messaging and hooking up!

Dos

  • Be honest. Your profile is a great opportunity to show off everything that’s amazing about you – but make sure you’re honest. You can share your sexual preferences: oral lover, anal hater etc. but it’s important to be yourself. It can be tempting to create an online persona but believe us, it’s hard to maintain and gets boring very quickly when you don’t get the matches you’re after!
  • Be open. If you love water sports or strip teases really get you going – tell people about it! If you know exactly what makes you tick and what turns you off then you can use Plenty More Naughty Fish’s great search features to help you find it!
  • Add a photo of yourself. By doing this, you’ll qualify your potential suitors to you easily. They’ll be able to see what you look like and message you – it’s much less scary than messaging someone with no photo. Your photos can be sexy but leave a little bit to the imagination!
  • Update your profile. Your online dating profile is your shop window. If it isn’t updated very often or isn’t updated at all, the likeliness is that no one will want to go shopping with you! If your profile has lots of interesting and up to date information about yourself, you could make your dating and hooking up sessions easier!

Don’ts

  • Have XXX snaps. While it can be tempting to add your sexiest pictures to your profile, it’s always good to make sure you leave something to the inevitable suspense between you and your next hookup! Sexy snaps are a yes, explicit snaps should be avoided!
  • Be a player. We get it, you’re online, you’re getting messages flying in from left right and centre. You could be messaging loads of singles at any one time. But remember that the fun of naughty dating is finding a long term friend with benefits and not dropping people after one rendezvous. Hookups are better when you know each other on a deeper level, the fun is waiting to meet and shag! Play the game but don’t tread on people!
  • Bombard people. Be open to messages and flirting but don’t be that person who sends someone loads of messages and is too much. It’s an instant turn off, takes away the mystery and turns fun into annoyance!

Naughty online dating is meant to be fun, flirty and filled with frolics. With our tips, tricks and do’s and don’ts your naughty dating experience could be filled with sexy fun and hookups!

You’re ready to jump into the Naughty Pond – there’s plenty more naughty fish in the sea, get your swimming gear on and jump right in – paddlers are also welcome!

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Dating after divorce or long-term relationship

As if breaking up wasn’t hard enough already, divorcing or separating after many years can feel devastating and the thought of ever loving someone else may seem impossible at first. Most people will experience a sense of grief and go through these 5 stages. They are:

    1. Denial and isolation
    2. Anger
    3. Bargaining
    4. Depression
    5. Acceptance

So how do you know if you are ready to get back out there and start dating again? Here are a few things that you should consider before you get back on that proverbial dating horse:

Accept that it’s over

Seems like an obvious one but this is a vital step helping you be open for something new. First, make sure you’ve come to terms with your marriage/relationship being over and that you have accepted it. Reaching this stage can take a long time – sometimes years – so be patient and allow yourself to heal first.

The ex is dating again

Remember that acceptance we’ve just mentioned? That resolve can be tested when you see your ex with someone new for the first time. Be prepared for this to trigger emotions you thought you’d dealt with. Seeing him/her with another partner can really hurt and trigger feelings of jealousy and undo all the positive steps you’ve taken since the breakup. At this point, it is important to remember that it’s ok to feel those emotions but not allow them to overwhelm you. Remembering that you and your ex may be at different stages in life will help you remain objective. And that you both deserve to be happy – even if it’s with someone else.

Meeting the kids

Sit down with your children and talk to them about this step waaay before you start dating again. Especially if your kids are older. Helping them navigate their own grieving process will allow the family to heal as a whole before they reach the stage of acceptance. So be gentle and give them time to get used to the idea of you dating again. Just don’t put it off altogether  – you too deserve to be happy!

Redefine yourself

Begin to redefine who you are outside of the marriage/relationship by spending quality time on your own. Take yourself out to dinner or the cinema. You’ve always wanted to try Salsa dancing but your partner did not? Go and do that! By rebuilding your own sense of identity you’ll get your confidence back and will begin to see all the exciting opportunities out there.

Time

As they say, “Time is the wisest counsellor of all.” I think we can agree that taking time out from dating after a breakup is a good strategy. One way to find out if the time is right to dip your toe in that dating pond again is to try visualising yourself with someone else. If you feel a sense of excitement – great – you are ready! If however, you struggle to do that, it’s safe to say you need a bit more time and space until you can. It’s ok to take as much time as you need!

Sexy Messaging – your naughty dating bible!

If you’re a member of the Naughty Pond, you’ll know that hot and sexy messages are a given! (If you aren’t already a member of Plenty More Naughty Fish – click here to join!) Sending and receiving sexts and naughty messages is one of the most fun parts of adult dating. The excitement of sending a dirty message to someone new that you fancy and the anticipation of their response is almost too much to bear and it often gets you hot under the collar!

We have some tips to help you send the sexiest messages in the Naughty Pond and start your naughty dating journey off with a bang – and end it with many bangs – pun intended!

  • Just go with it! It’s a simple one but it’s one we find ourselves saying over and over again! Naughty dating might be alien to you but it also might be the most fun you’ve had online dating before! Relax into it and know that you might receive naughty messages from likely matches and, well, some not-so-likely matches. In adult dating, it’s a great way to meet people and find out more about them!
  • Tease! Anticipation within adult dating and naughty dating is one of the most powerful tools you’ll have! Being a naughty tease in your sexy messages could separate the weak from the chaff and could also open your eyes to your own kinks! Tease your match with details on what you’re going to do when you finally meet in real life; tease them about what you’re doing tonight and what you wish they’d do to you! Get hot and heavy and love every second of it!
  • Send sexy pictures – it doesn’t have to be anything too incriminating. If you really trust the person you are exchanging sexy messages with then why not give them a small glimpse of what they’ve got to come!
  • Leave them wanting more… there’s always a small win in leaving people wanting more! Keep some things a secret until you meet in real life but keep it light and fun too! Send messages like “guess what I’m wearing right now…” and then wait for ten minutes once they’ve replied – their minds will be going wild while you’re holding them to ransom!
  • Flirt and be suggestive. It sounds simple but no one wants to send sexy messages to then receive on moaning about their ex or the kids not being in bed yet. Embrace the naughtiness and flirt – loosen up your inhibitions and enjoy this new naughty side of yourself! Naughty dating is supposed to be fun but most importantly it’s supposed to get your heart racing!

Let us know how you do with our tips and if you have any tips that never fail to work!

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