Your relationship started hot and heavy, right? There were naughty messages flying around and dirty weekends were every weekend! You thought the fun would never end and you were sure you’d found your perfect match – for a long term relationship and in the bedroom!
But, as with all relationships, things settle down, a new normal rhythm is found and the naughty times are a distant memory. But those early, sex-filled memories still get you hot under the collar and it’s the only thing missing from your perfect relationship.
Now you’re wondering, what can be done to heat up this once very naughty relationship?
Do not fear! There is so much that can be done to spice up any relationship, no matter how deep into it you are! Some ideas include:
- Have a night in – make it naughty! No, we don’t mean a takeaway and falling asleep in front of the TV like every other night in – we mean a night in where the rules are strict and the sex is sensual!
- Make some rules:
> no clothes on in the bedroom
> drinking games and stripping games ONLY
> no mention of work, the kids, the bills – all of the usual turn-offs And get naughty – lock yourself in the bedroom, get a babysitter or simply do it in the dead of night – a night with must-happen hot sex is on!
- Go on a date – and wear no underwear! We’re serious! Get dressed up in your best gear, dress to the nines and then before you go out, show each other the underwear you “forgot” to put on – it’ll get your juices flowing before the taxi even arrives! Keep it kinky with regular feels and check-ups to see how each other are coping through a painfully slow dinner date!
- Get adventurous! Do you have any fantasies or forgotten fantasies? Go wild, dress up, commit to the part and let your fantasies be real. It doesn’t have to be too elaborate if it’s simply being tied up and controlled, get creative! Take it one step further by adding costumes!
- Resurrect your sexy underwear draw – more for the ladies than the men but my God will your man be gagging for it! Throw out your old fail-safe knickers and that holey bra that you usually get into bed with. Treat yourself to some new, well-fitting and naughty knickers – go crotchless, why not!? You deserve new sexy bras – the high street is full of sexy balconette bras, hide and seek sets and hold-ups for every shape and size! You’ll be feeling excitement just trying naughtily putting them through till hoping not to be seen!
- Go away for the night. Remember that thrill of planning a dirty weekend away? Being oh so careful about what to pack, what to wear, what not to wear. The anticipation of packing and driving there was almost enough to tip you over the edge. Well, why not plan your next dirty weekend to spice up your naughty life? It doesn’t have to be far-flung or even super-posh – for what you’ve got planned, all you’ll need is a bed, bathroom and plenty of peace and quiet and privacy!
If you need more help on how to spice up your relationship, stay tuned for more!
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It’s easy to have one night stands with the naughty singles on Plenty More Naughty Fish! Our members are kinky and dirty and always looking to add not only notches to their bedposts but also naughty encounters to their weekday evenings! The Naughty Pond is filled with sexy singles who want casual hookups on their own terms and naughty one night stands. If you are looking for no strings attached online fun, Plenty More Naughty Fish is the online dating site for you!
Knowing the hunger of many of our members, we’ve put together some dos and don’ts for making the most out of your Naughty Pond one-night stand!
Keeping things casual is easy with naughty online dating. The key to a sexy one-off encounter is to keep your match at arm’s length. In an ideal world, you will not know them personally before embarking on sexual fun together. If you know them already, it’s not the end of the world – however, it increases the risk of you catching feelings! If you want to keep things casual and naughty, hook up with singles who are not already known to you.
Make sure your intentions are clear from the get-go! No one likes to be strung along and if it just casual sex and one-off no strings attached fun that you’re looking for, then make that clear and be proud of it! There’s nothing worse than hurting someone’s feelings or confusing them with the blurred lines between casual relationships and a full-on commitment!
Use the Naughty Pond and its kinky members to experiment! You won’t know the majority of our sexy members and this can give you the feeling of liberation to try things you’ve only ever dreamt about before. If you were once too shy to ask a sexual partner to dress up, why not make that your focus in your next Naughty Pond hook up? If you love the idea of sharing, why not open the conversation with our kinky singles and see where it takes you? Let the Naughty Pond be everything sexy that you’ve ever fantasised about!
If your one-night stand is enough for you, be polite about it. You may have dived into Plenty More Naughty Fish with the desire to find, meet and connect with multiple singles all across the UK – and you may very well find your match in that. However, if you catch the eye of someone who wants a long-term casual encounter with you and this doesn’t suit you, simply be honest and stick to the online dating rules – don’t ghost them! You never know, they may be good for a cheeky hook up when you get a dry spell!
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Finding yourself back in the dating world after a divorce or long-term relationship can be a daunting process, particularly if you have children to consider. But getting back on the dating horse doesn’t have to be difficult as long as you keep a few things in mind when it comes to your kids.
Take your time
There’s no need for rushing to introduce your new partner to the kiddos unless the relationship is getting serious. Make sure you are both on the same page and discuss how you want to approach this. You wouldn’t want your kids to become attached to your new squeeze only to have them experience the loss of someone they liked.
Telling your new partner about your children is a given and he/she should really know from the very beginning. If he or she doesn’t like children or can not accept you are a parent, it’s pretty clear they aren’t right for you. Save yourself the heartbreak and move on.
Being honest with your children about your new love is vital to have them on board. They will smell BS a mile away, so try and be as honest with them as possible about your relationship. It’s important that you reassure them and explain that they will always be the most important people your life, no matter what.
Accept that your kids may be slow to warm up to your new partner. If that’s the case, don’t push the relationship on them too quickly. Give them time.
Let your children know that your new significant other isn’t intended to replace your ex — ever. This way, they don’t have to feel as though they have to choose or that they betray the other parent.
Many children cling onto the hope that their parents will get back together for a long time and may struggle to come to terms with it. When you’ve moved on to a new partner, the finality of your split becomes more real to your children, which may bring out feelings of jealousy, anger, and fear in them, so talk to them about their feelings and let them express their emotions without judgement. Gently remind them that mummy or daddy are also people who deserve to be happy, even if it’s with someone else.
Do you have any other advice for single parents looking to date? Share it with us by leaving a comment.
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Spring is starting to pop out and this dedicated naughty blog post is focused on all areas for how you can get sprung this March! The month of March can be a bit of an in-between one, it’s warmer than deepest, darkest January but not hot enough for the pub garden and hooking up on the fly. Nope, in March you still need to depend on your hot contacts on Plenty More Naughty Fish for fun and attention. But don’t like the anticlimax of March reflect in your sex life! Naughty dating, messaging and flirting is easy with the Naughty Pond, there’s always plenty more naughty hookups and we’ve got some great ideas on how to keep things hot on the dating site and in the bedroom!
March 1st: National Peanut Butter Lover’s Day
Are you a lover of the sweet stuff? Do you love to have fun with food? Is your ultimate sexual fantasy the idea of being smothered and then licked clean? Why not embrace the Naughty Pond’s sploshing lovers and find yourself a hot date with someone who has a passion for peanut butter and eating out!
March 8th: International Women’s Day
You are a lover of a fine woman, you can appreciate all that goes on behind the scenes and you may find that hard graft is a massive turn on. You may be a strong, independent woman that wants to take your sexual liberation and casual hookups to the next level using the Naughty Pond! So, why not celebrate it all on International Women’s Day? Get yourself dressed up to the nines and pick exactly which part of your body you would like celebrated first: your feet are tired after a long day, why not start with a sensual foot massage? Your back aches from carrying your load all day, why not suggest a deep massage with hot oils. Your tongue will have done all the talking this week, why not treat it to a little one on one time with your casual friend with benefits?
March 9: National Barbie Day
Barbie did a lot for girls as a kid, and we all know they did a lot for the boys too! Why not spend the evening on National Barbie Day getting dressed up and enjoying the fantastic life, being plastic. Why not join her as Ken?
March 9th: National Napping Day
Who doesn’t love a nap? With a day to celebrate it, why not plan a slumber party that evening with a strict dress code – no pyjamas. Jazz up your naps with sweet treats (you might have some peanut butter left from March 1st) and some games – not your usual Sleeping Lions, more like hide the sausage!
March 19: Spring Equinox
There are many traditions associated with the start of spring such as Easter eggs, Spring cleaning, rebirth etc. You can get naughtily creative with a spring theme. Some ideas that come to mind: a bit fun spring cleaning role play, spending the whole day in your birthday suit or hiding naughty surprises around your home for a fun Easter egg hunt with a twist.
March 17th: St. Patrick’s Day
Top o’ the morning to you, St. Patrick’s Day is a great time to get down and dirty and explore your Irish roots, in the pub with a pint of Guinness and in the bedroom! You can warm up with the Mattress Mick and end on The Fixer! Get your legs up for a merry old dance and then hook them around each other to get into the perfect position and see in Paddy’s Day with your legs in the air and your breath in your throat! If you’re the queen of your casual relationship, why not embrace the Irish loved position: Queening! Make him your throne and sit on his face!
See, March can be a great month for casual hook ups, new sex positions and in-between no strings attached relationships! It’s easy to find a hot date using Plenty More Naughty Fish and there are plenty more hotties hitting the Naughty Pond this month!
What are you waiting for? Make it a March to remember!
So, you’re in a new relationship and heard a few rumours about their past? Now, we think it’s good to be aware but we also think that everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance (well, most people). This could also be a vicious rumour spread by a jealous ex who loves to cause a stir. Above all, we believe that you should trust your instincts.
If something is worrying you, just ask your partner outright.
Here are some tips on how to deal with certain worries you may experience.
You have heard your partner jumps from one serious relationship to the next
It is pretty clear he/she loves being loved and isn’t afraid of commitment. However, be aware that jumping straight from one serious relationship to the next can indicate insecurity or fear of being alone.
This does not mean they would cheat on you. But you should have a conversation about why they cheated and if they don’t address the reason and don’t regret it then alarm bells should start ringing.
They have been cheated on
They may have trust issues. They may have trouble opening up. Just give them time and reassure them if need be.
They’re new to the relationship thing
This person could have a fear of rejection, they could apt to jump ship when the tides get rough. Or, they may simply be unlucky in love. It’s best not to judge anyone before you get to know them properly!
They’re a “player”
Hmm, well with this it completely depends on who you have heard it from. If everyone refers to your partner as a player then they probably are! Don’t stick around to find out. You don’t want to be just another notch on their bedpost! There’s plenty more fish in the sea 🙂
So there’s a little bit of red flag info for you. Just remember – trust your instincts! Like we said at the start, some people just love to cause trouble. If something is bothering you the best thing to do is ask the person in question. Their reaction should indicate whether you need to steer clear.
Sex is great, isn’t it? It’s what most of us think about 4837574 times a day, it’s a motivation for many and it could be the main reason you’re dating and searching on the Naughty pond! You may have found yourself fishing in the naughty pond because your sex life has been a bit like a baron wasteland recently – but as a member of Plenty More Naughty Fish, you could be getting wet, naughty and sexy in no time!
Sex is a hugely important part of any relationship. But for an adult and naughty relationship and dating scenario, it’s everything! You need to know that the person you’re sending naughty messages to and investing your time in is going to be a rocket in the bedroom! You don’t want to get all that way to find they’re something of a damp squib!
Adult dating and using the naughty pond is super easy, you’ll be able to find naughty singles in no time but you need to make sure you’re a good match before you commit to doing the deed! When messaging your new beau, make sure you qualify them with some sexy questions…
- What’s your favourite sex position?
- Do you have any fetishes?
- What’s your favourite body part?
- Do you like to play dress up?
- Do you have any fantasies?
- What are your thoughts on foreplay?
All of these questions will help you to see what sort of person your sexy match is in the bedroom! If you don’t like some of their answers you can cool it off with them – that’s the beauty of adult dating online, you can take everything fully at your own pace and you can get naughty as little or as often as you’d like!
If you find someone that ticks all the boxes and you start feeling new movements and sensations when speaking to them – get it out there! Plan a meeting and hook up! Make sure you are in a safe place and you have safe sex but why not go the full nine yards and plan a naughty night away to really get to know each other?
Get naughty in real life after naughty messages, naughty flirting and a night together!
Join the naughty pond now to start your adult dating journey online today! It’s free to join and you could be hooking up with naughty singles in no time!
As exhilarating as first dates can be, they are also often mild panic-inducing – imma right? There’s the question of what to wear? Where to meet? What to do? What to talk about?
Sometimes the conversation flows freely, other times it needs a little, um, help and on other occasions, you get a cacophony of crickets. But we’re not here to talk about those latter moments. I want to address the ones that need a little inspiration to get going and that often turn out to be quite interesting.
The key in any conversation is ‘connection’. Imagine sitting opposite someone who keeps looking around whilst you are telling them about your last holiday. They are clearly not sending signals of ‘hey, I’m listening, keep talking!’ Practising active listening is a great way to make the other person heard and for a connection to take place. Once you noticed the connection (relaxed face and body, smiling) steer topics to things you and your date may already have in common and try to draw parallels.
Expand on what you already know about your date from your initial chats/conversations to keep the momentum flowing. As an example tell them what attracted you to their profile such as their love of reading. You can ask them about their favourite author, genre, book, place to read. If you’ve been set up by a friend discuss how each of you knows them.
If you don’t know what you have in common yet, comment on your meeting place (no moaning please!). For example, you could ask if they’ve been to one of your favourite restaurants or bars. From there you could hop onto favourite cuisines, best cocktail bars, music etc. Picking up clues what your date responds to makes them and in turn, you, relax.
We have a signal
Once you’ve established a connection you can move onto deeper topics. What’s your date good at? What are they passionate about?
‘Tell me about your family.’ Can be a very enlightening conversation. Even if their story isn’t positive you can empathise (‘Wow, that sounds really hard. How did you deal with that?’) thereby giving you an even greater chance to connect
Asking about their friends is also a good way to get to know your date on a deeper level. Check-in on their long-term friends. Why have they been friends for so long? A lack of those types of relationships is usually a bad sign.
Going even deeper by discussing their aspirations for life or philosophical questions may seem like scary topics to tackle on a first date, so you can leave these for later dates. Perhaps it’s best to avoid topics like marriage and children on the first date. Instead, ask your date about what their perfect life would look like or who they most admire and why. It may be scary to ask these types of questions on a first date but these are often the ones that unearth real compatibility. Be brave, get in there!
Be careful you don’t shoot out question after question. You’re on a date, not interrogating a suspect. Likewise, pay attention to how many questions your date is asking you. Keep in mind that fast-talking is often a sign of nerves. Try asking them if there’s anything they want to know about you might make them feel more confident to ask you a question and get them out of their nervous state. But if your date continues to talk at you rather than with you, you may need to consider if this date worth pursuing or not.
It’s ok to finish a date early (Just say: ‘This was really nice meeting you. I have another commitment in 30 minutes. Let’s get the bill.’)
We hope you find this useful. What topics do you think are great for a first date? Feel free to share them below.
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