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To gift or not to gift in adult dating?

So, this is Christmas! The most wonderful time of the year is upon us and the age-old question of what to get your f-buddy for the festive period? Your relationship is strictly casual and naughty as hell but what do you do about Christmas presents? 

With any casual and naughty relationship, boundaries need to be super clear from the get-go. Your relationship is simply for benefits and hookups and that works for you. 

But who doesn’t love receiving something special for Christmas?

The bonus of gifting your naughty match at Christmas is that you can go as naughty as you want and there’s no judgement! You can go wild and buy things that would fulfil your every sexual fantasy! There’s no need to go boring with Christmas gifts and you can even get something interactive that you can use when you next hook up!

If you’re going to gift this Christmas, why not go with sexy underwear – for you and for them? You could shop till you drop buying things like crotchless knickers, edible panties or even edible boxers. You could all out and get something for your beau to dress up in just for you! If you’re into firemen or nurses, get them a sexy outfit for you to feast your eyes on when you’re next together!

A great naughty gift is food – fun with food in the bedroom can be sensuous, dirty and freaky as hell! Why not get some edible licks and lubes and give each other a full taste of Christmas? If you want to go vanilla this festive season, you can always jazz it up with flavoured lube! If you love cherry flavoured everything, you could have a party in your mouth and in your pants! 

If you really want to spice things up this Christmas you could buy your casual match a sex toy to play with while you’re apart and when you’re together and things are getting hot! You can easily shop online for vibrators, bullets you can put in your handbag for discretion, love eggs, butt plugs – the lot! You can buy it all online easily and it’ll land on your doorstep in unbranded boxes ready for you to slip under the Christmas tree! 

Why not buy some sex games? Start with some sexy card games, truth or dare and more! You’ll be laughing and getting down and dirty in no time! Novelty gifts always go down well – you can get your match novelty pants that say “69 me!” or sex cheques or go really silly with sexy scratch cards and jelly boobs! Get your stresses out with stress boobs or bake a naughty pre-hook up dinner with willy pasta!

If you’re in a naughty, casual relationship this Christmas, don’t be afraid to gift – but do it the right way! Don’t take it all too seriously and get ready to get hot under the collar!

And if you’re looking to find someone for some naughty holiday fun and hookups, why not join Plenty More Naughty Fish now? Jump into the naughty pond and start adult dating now!

Sexy Messaging – your naughty dating bible!

If you’re a member of the Naughty Pond, you’ll know that hot and sexy messages are a given! (If you aren’t already a member of Plenty More Naughty Fish – click here to join!) Sending and receiving sexts and naughty messages is one of the most fun parts of adult dating. The excitement of sending a dirty message to someone new that you fancy and the anticipation of their response is almost too much to bear and it often gets you hot under the collar!

We have some tips to help you send the sexiest messages in the Naughty Pond and start your naughty dating journey off with a bang – and end it with many bangs – pun intended!

  • Just go with it! It’s a simple one but it’s one we find ourselves saying over and over again! Naughty dating might be alien to you but it also might be the most fun you’ve had online dating before! Relax into it and know that you might receive naughty messages from likely matches and, well, some not-so-likely matches. In adult dating, it’s a great way to meet people and find out more about them!
  • Tease! Anticipation within adult dating and naughty dating is one of the most powerful tools you’ll have! Being a naughty tease in your sexy messages could separate the weak from the chaff and could also open your eyes to your own kinks! Tease your match with details on what you’re going to do when you finally meet in real life; tease them about what you’re doing tonight and what you wish they’d do to you! Get hot and heavy and love every second of it!
  • Send sexy pictures – it doesn’t have to be anything too incriminating. If you really trust the person you are exchanging sexy messages with then why not give them a small glimpse of what they’ve got to come!
  • Leave them wanting more… there’s always a small win in leaving people wanting more! Keep some things a secret until you meet in real life but keep it light and fun too! Send messages like “guess what I’m wearing right now…” and then wait for ten minutes once they’ve replied – their minds will be going wild while you’re holding them to ransom!
  • Flirt and be suggestive. It sounds simple but no one wants to send sexy messages to then receive on moaning about their ex or the kids not being in bed yet. Embrace the naughtiness and flirt – loosen up your inhibitions and enjoy this new naughty side of yourself! Naughty dating is supposed to be fun but most importantly it’s supposed to get your heart racing!

Let us know how you do with our tips and if you have any tips that never fail to work!

Join the naughty pond now to start naughty messaging now.

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