Don’t settle for ‘Mr or Ms. Wrong’
All your friends are taken, acquaintances all seem to be settled, even your slightly odd neighbour seems to have found Mr Right. In fact, from looking around it feels as if the only singleton about is you.
Ever felt like this? Everyone has at some point.
For some, being in this position creates tremendous amount pressure to find a partner quickly. You crave what you think everyone has: “The Perfect Partner.” However, it’s important to take into account that the relationships of your friends are probably entirely different to what you see. External appearances can be deceitful! Just because they have a partner it doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve got it all!
It’s not worth dating Mr or Ms. Wrong for dating’s sake and neither is it good to enter a relationship merely because someone has shown a large amount of interest in you. If you do this, you may find you’re constantly entering relationships below your standards. This will, in turn, increase your insecurity and cause you to think negatively about dating. Settling for Mr or Ms. Wrong isn’t a good move for this reason.
It’s not fair to ‘make do’ with someone just because you want a relationship. You will find yourself trying to mould them around what you want them to be. You should never try and change someone. If you feel yourself trying to do this then it’s fair to say – they’re not the right one for you.
Our advice to you would be, make sure you’re happy in yourself before going into a relationship. There are so many singletons out there, there’s absolutely no need to rush. Rather than rushing into anything and settling for mediocre, decide what you want from your next relationship. You don’t have to match your future partner with everything on your list but at least it’ll point you towards the right kind of person for you!
This weeks catch – Nicole
Meet this weeks great catch – Nicole.
Nicole is 37 and describes herself as “an easy going, fun, open minded, positive gal that prioritises friends and family above everything else.” Her career is important but “it is not the be all and end all” and she wants to find someone who feels the same.
Experiencing new things is important to Nicole and she thinks “it would be great to meet someone who can continue to expand my horizons.” Her likes includes; “the smell of cut grass, coffee, the sun, laughing, mint chocolate, Masterchef, politeness” and her dislikes are; ”marzipan, selfishness, spiders, board games and bad writing/spelling.” Another great reason to spell- check that profile!
Fancy sending Nicole a message, just click here if you’re a Plenty More Fish member. If not, sign yourself up for free on Plenty More Fish today!
This weeks catch – Lee
It’s been a while since we’ve graced you with one of our favourite members but you’ll be glad to know we’re back with another fantastic singleton…
Lee is 36 and likes “socialising in the pub and playing sport.” He also tells us he has “a bit of a love for musicals” which he thinks may be a “dangerous confession” but we reckon this will only ever work in his favour. For once, us girls won’t have to drag our fella kicking and screaming to “Les Misérables!”
Lee’s “looking to live again.’ He would like “someone to laugh with” and someone to “share the adventure” he’s about to start. Admittedly, he watched ‘Up’ the other day but we think that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a bit of inspiration! 
Is Lee your type? Why not show your interest with a wink or a message? If you’re a member of Plenty More Fish just click here.
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Plenty More Fish on Your Phone
With our simple and straightforward mobile dating web app, you no longer have to wait for your computer to load up to check who’s winked or messaged you. You can now date completely on the move!
Give the Plenty More Fish mobile web app a try by simply typing www.plentymorefish.com into your mobile browser. Enjoy!
If you’re a member of any of the following sites, you can access Plenty More Fish on your mobile from the 21st of December:
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Merry Christmas from Plenty More Fish!
Will Sidney the snowman find his true love? Find out in our new Christmas ad!
Meet Sidney!
Our member of the week this week is Sidney the Snowman. We don’t usually give shout-outs to snowmen but as Christmas is fast approaching and with it being the season of goodwill and all that, it’s only fair.
So what’s Sid like and what’s he looking for? He’s a couple of days old (32 in snowmen years) and is looking for a snow woman of similar age. He’s already dated penguins, reindeer and even tried his luck with a fairy once – unfortunately that fizzled out. It’s not that he doesn’t like other Christmas folk… they just can’t seem to hack the cold. He’s back for another season and looking for someone to have a few laughs and mainly, chill out with.
Will Sid find who he’s looking for on Plenty More Fish? Find out on your TV from the 20th December – 31st December!
Sidney (or Sid, as we like to call him) will be appearing on various Sky Channels from the 20th – 31st December. We will also be posting the ad on our blog and YouTube so keep an eye out for that!
This weeks catch – Samantha
Meet Samantha!
Say hi to Samantha, 24, our member of the week.
Samantha loves to keep fit, mainly through her passion for dancing – she works as a dance teacher and a Zumba trainer. She also “interested in fitness”, is a hip hop and contemporary dancer and visits the gym regularly in her spare time.
Another passion she has is travelling. In her own words she “can’t get enough of it.” Samantha is a “fun high energy person who likes to be out an about.”
Do you have lots in common with Samantha? Why not send her a message today?
Member of the week
Meet James!
James is 27 and tells us that he’s “an easy going and generous guy” and that he’s “looking for someone between 24-30 with a open mind who’s keen on travelling”.
He’s quite sporty and is “into swimming, cycling and country walks with the dog.” James is also “keen on starting kayaking and climbing” and is up for trying new things but tells us “it would be nice to share that with someone.”
Does James sound like your cup of tea? (we love tea!) Get in touch today by clicking this link.
Member of the week
Meet Louise
Louise is 33 and tells us that she’s “sick of the guys” that she’s met offline so she thought she’d give this a try!
She tells us that her “Friends andfamily are everything to me” and that she “loves to laugh, dance, sing and do the odd crazy thing.” Louise likes “going to pubs, restaurants, cinema and love going for walks” and describes herself “kind, considerate, polite, thoughtful.”
Do you think you’re who Louise is looking for? Send her a message today!
What are you waiting for?! Go to Louise’s Plenty More Fish profile today!
Great New Features on Plenty More Fish!
We have just introduced some great bolt-ons available for all our full members. These exciting new features allow you to become a dating VIP, find out whether your messages have been read, allow all members to reply to you and allow all members to contact you. Want more information? Then read on…
More ways to stay on top!
Search VIP
The VIP member is cool, smart, attractive and guaranteed to turn a few heads. They’re 75% more likely to attract attention than anyone else. Why? Because they stand out. How? Because they’re a VIP of course. By purchasing our Search VIP Bolt-on you can be highlighted in search results and wear the Search VIP crown on your profile to show you mean business. Get your Search VIP Bolt-on today!
Read Notification
The member who has the Read Notification is in control. They know who has or hasn’t read their messages. They know who their time is best spent on. After purchasing the Read Notification Bolt-on, you know that when the ‘eye’ icon turns bold, they’ve read your message. So while they await their reply, there’s time to focus on other things… like introducing yourself to more of your favourite members.
Contact for Free
This member is crafty like a fox, and what isn’t crafty about allowing absolutely all members the ability to message them? That’s right, our crafty fox has created a world in which any member, regardless of membership level, can get in touch. But how can you spot the crafty ones? Well, by simply looking for the ‘envelope’ icon on the top of their profile page, that’s how.
Reply for Free
Our Reply For Free member is a real go-getter! Confident in the knowledge that a well crafted private message can guarantee a response. So why not join them! By using this Bolt-on you’re more than increasing your chances of a reply. Remember, the more messages you send, the more replies you’ll get. So what’s stopping you? Go get!
